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Lovely quotes from somewhere…

The most terrible poverty is LONELINESS, and the feeling of being UNLOVED…


“This year, when so many are hurting in so many ways, try a little kindness, give   a little love. It doesn’t take much; look someone in the eye and give them a warm smile, say thanks to your server, wish someone a good day, give a single parent an extra few dollars so she/he doesn’t have to put things back; pay for a meal or coffee for a stranger, etc… To those lonely and hurting, it may be the only act of love and respect they get, and is appreciated so very, very much.”

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Posted by on July 15, 2012 in Uncategorized



Love and control

Loving me doesn't give you the right to control me

” Loving me doesn’t give you the right to control me.”

How far would you allow your partner to have control over your life?

Should there be love and pain, always?

Is it love if you are hurting someone? Will you still love if you are that someone?

Marriage is not a ticket to gain control over your partner’s life.

These are just a few thoughts that come to my mind about love and control.

Violence is most likely to happen when you let someone try to control you.  It is a sad thing you see it happening everywhere – in schools, on the street, movie and TV shows, even in workplaces, government – and my own home.

I had been told that I am partly to blame because I tolerated.  I pampered him; gave in to his wishes.  I let him control my life.  I let him abuse me. I let him because I love him.

But not anymore.  I now love myself more. I can’t allow tears to flow all the time. I have to love life.

Love myself and control my own life.

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Posted by on July 3, 2012 in Marriage


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